Travels with the Aunt

Postings for the next week will more than likely be few and far between; my 13-year-old niece (that's an old pic of her; sorry, Steph!) is coming today and will be staying with us for a week, to explore the big city, eat lots of good food, and tolerate her Aunt and Uncle's many idiocyncracies.
A few words about my niece. She's my brother's oldest child, and she's one hell of a smart kid. Loves books (thank god) and does well in school. She has a great sense of humour (also thank god), and she draws cartoons which are eerily similar to the kind of stuff I did when I was her age. She has a great singing voice, and a real theatrical flair. She's an award-winning highland dancer and ballet dancer. She has a very curious mind, and asks way too many questions. I adore her.
In fact, she's a lot like I was when I was a kid, except that she is bursting with confidence, something that I sadly lacked when I was her age. It's funny what a difference a generation makes. When I was a kid, we had no aunts or uncles or grandparents that lived near by. Nada. It was just our nuclear family and that was it. When life got stressful (as it often did) there was no relative to turn to for relief. My niece on the other hand, sees her grandparents on a regular basis, and she has oodles of aunts and uncles and cousins to visit and kvetch with. I'm so happy that's she's blessed with the kind of extended family that I never had, but I won't deny that a little part of me is envious. Oh well. But that's how these things turn out, isn't it? We give to the next generation all of the things that we never had. And it really does feel so good to give.







