
I have mentioned this before, but it begs repeating: my husband is just as much of a biblio-nut as I am, if not more so, because he works in a library, so all those books on all those shelves beckon to him every day. Did I also mention that we met in a library? Many years ago I used to work for the Toronto Public Library, and it was there among the stacks that I first encountered that burly beard and those big blue eyes. My career has taken a different path, but Guy has stayed the course, because for him, working in a library is indeed his bliss that he was meant to follow.
I wish I could tell you in great detail my husband's life story to date, but I know he would throttle me if I did. Suffice to say that he came from the 'school of hard knocks', a poor kid from 'the other side of the tracks' in Oshawa, Ontario. He quit school when he was in grade 10, and has been supporting himself since the age of 16. With such little formal education, you can imagine the kind of back-breaking jobs he had to do over the years in order to survive. But just because you don't have a formal education, doesn't mean you aren't smart. Always a voracious reader, the library was a blessed haven for this young man. I can't remember how many times over the years he has said to me, "Books and music saved my life".
Eventually this hard-working fellow finished his highschool education, and saved enough money to go to college so that he could fulfill his dream: to work in a library. It makes me think about how I create stories about the lives of strangers I enounter in my neighbourhood. Some people who meet my husband now at the library where he works might assume that this man has had a bland middle-class cushy background, and now has 'settled' for a government job in a library, to coast out the rest of his days. But I know different. I know the path which led him to where he is now, and it is a remarkable, heart-breaking, life-affirming story of perseverance in the face of great hardship. In many ways, a story not unlike the life of my father. Is that one of the many reasons I fell in love with him? I have no doubt. What is that well-known quote by Henry David Thoreau? Most men lead lives of quiet desperation. I would say that my husband leads a life of quiet unabashed joy and overwhelming gratitude.
One of the many interesting jobs which Guy does for the Toronto Public Library are free book talks for the public. I think in the What's On monthly magazine for TPL the book talks are described as Tea and Books, and for some strange reason I think this program is only offered in the west end of the city. Basically, a staff member from the library volunteers about an hour of their time to go to a branch in the city and discuss a list of books that they have read, which will hopefully encourage discussion as well encourage patrons to sign out any of the books which pique their interest. And yes, tea, coffee and cookies are available at these events. My husband has done quite a few of these talks over the years, and he just loves them. I think it just tickles him pink that he gets paid to sit with a group of avid listeners and discuss the books which matter to him, and hopefully will matter to the customers as well.
Because of the the many challenging and unique life experiences my husband has lived through, I think it has had a dramatic effect on his views of the world, of the justice system, and especially politics. So don't expect to discuss any fun fiction at his book talks! Off and on over the years I have tried to encourage Guy to add more fiction to his list of books, and he has relented a few times, but lately he has made it very clear that he is there to talk about the books that he loves, and if people want to talk about fiction, well they'll just have to attend another book talk. Fair enough. And he is one of the few people involved in this program who recommends a lot of non-fiction, so I guess it all evens out in the end. (I would be remiss if I did not mention the fact that my husband did read a great deal of the fiction classics in his youth: the Russian classics, Dickens, Poe, H.P. Lovecraft, Orwell, Huxley, Ray Bradbury, O Henry, de Maupassant and many, many others. I just can't convince him to crack open any contemporary fiction at all. But I haven't given up the fight!)
So if you're in the city on Wednesday, September 28th, and you've got some spare time in the morning, be sure to drop by the Weston Branch Library at 10:30am to partake in tea, cookies and some scintillating book talk from a remarkable (and adorable) man who is passionate about books, ideas and politics. Here's a list of the books Guy will be discussing that day:
Collapse : how societies choose to fail or succeed
by Jared Diamond
Gag rule : on the suppression of dissent and the stifling of democracy
by Lewis H. Lapham
The iron triangle : inside the secret world of the Carlyle Group
by Dan Briody
The sociopath next door : the ruthless versus the rest of us
by Martha Stout
Toxic sludge is good for you : lies, damn lies, and the public relations industry
by John Stauber and Sheldon Rampton
Imperial America : reflections on the United States of amnesia
by Gore Vidal